This is a face book conversation between two members of our group.   It is about bramin marriages.    Both the names are hidden to maintain the secrecy.   If we do not care about this problem….. Remembering bharathi..

“சொந்த சகோதர்கள் துன்பத்தில் வீழல்  கண்டும் சிந்தை இரங்காரடி .. கிளியே வாய்ச்சொல்லில் வீரரடி”

Man:  but the non -brahmins are not. I saw educated non-brahmin girls married to not so educated grooms. Two of my non-brahmin friends are less educated, but their wives are more educated.

Lady: very very correct sir.They give more importance to life raher than qualification.  Another possible solution is put a yard stick in age like psc or upsc exams.consider the life is an exam ban the late marriage

Man: but those are 40+, and unmarried, only sons of their parents (like me), have also right to marry. I am trying to find a bride since last 15-19 years, but failed due to the planetory positions of my horoscope.   I’ve prayed in temples (thirumananchery, kukke subrahmanya, Sri Lakhsmi Narasimha temple, nr madivala, blr) for marriage, but my wishes were not fulfilled. My father’s dynasty will end with my death in an old age home

Lady: ont think like sir.pls go to thiruvairanikulam(kerala) temple and pray.The only friend who supprts in our difficulties is “the real GOD”.SO KEEP ON TRYING AND ALL THE BEST

Brahmins TamilNadu :  Can i use this conversation in the website. Ofcource, i hide both of your names. If feel this will give a light on the current state of our marriage. If you have objection, i will not use it. Please respond.

Lady: I HAVE NO OBJECTION.I WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO MAX UPLIFTMENT

Man:  Yes.